Rocks Off recently sent me a few of their new sex toys to test. I have tested some Rocks Off toys before and I was delighted that they offered me to test some more toys. They sent me a list so I could pick a selection of toys I thought would suit me. (more…)
Let’s get rid of sex toy vibration patterns
I love sex toys. Although the main purpose of my blog is not reviewing sex toys, anyone perusing my website for a bit can tell that I have reviewed my fair share of them. I have my favourites, obviously, but I always think it’s fun to try something new. (more…)
Wicked Wednesday: I dream of rest
My mental health isn’t the greatest at the moment, with some stuff happening on the home front, but I really liked this week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt, so decided to run with it. It may not be as sexy as my usual stuff, but bear with me. (more…)
Sex toy review: Satisfyer Partner Multifun 2
Every so often, Satisfyer contacts me to ask if I want to review their new products. Since falling in love with their suction toys I tend to say “yes”. Satisfyer tends to be very generous and I usually receive more than one sample of each toy so I can share with friends (and family). (more…)
Happy International Women’s Day 2019!
Today is International Women’s Day! The older I get, the more I appreciate women. I just don’t have time anymore for entitled, white men who feel the need to be patronising. This year I am starting the day properly: with a breakfast together with a bunch of amazingly successful women. I work in an industry which is still predominantly male (although women are gaining ground) so it is nice for us women to get together and support each other.
I am grateful for this blog and for the sex blogging community I am part of. Over the course of the last few years I have really grown as a feminist, and as a result I have become more confident. I still don’t quite have the confidence of a middle-aged white man, but I’m working my way towards it.
Women are amazing, and if we band together, we can accomplish so much. I have felt so supported by my fellow sex bloggers, and I wish all women would support each other as much. The myth of women as rivals is only there to divide and conquer and keep us in our place. Well, I for one will not be kept in my place. I am proud to be a woman, and I won’t be put down anymore.
I’m just rambling a bit here, because I am tired and I want to make sure I write something in support of women today. So sorry for that. My SEO Readability Score is going to be good on this one; it seems to like silly short sentences.
Anyhow, women are amazing. We are at a disadvantage in the workplace because we have to work twice as much to get half the recognition a man gets. We are expected to be quiet, accommodating and nice. Ugh, I hate being nice. We do the emotional labour for men, both in the workplace and at home. And when we complain, or stand up for ourselves, we are branded “bitches” and “difficult”. And yet we persist.
So here is to all the women out there. I raise my glass to you, you are all amazing. And I want to send a special shout out to all the WOC. You are working twice as hard as us white women, because you are dealing with the double whammy of race and gender. I take my hat off to you and I thank you for the trailblazing you have done that I benefit from. You are fantastic!
Happy International Women’s Day, everyone!
Masturbation Monday: Masturbating shamelessly
The shower is hot and as I soap myself in I get wet with anticipation about what will follow soon. My bullet vibe is on the edge of the tub and when I am finished washing, I position myself so that the shower hits my pussy and I reach for my bullet vibe. I cue up one of my favourite fantasies and turn the vibe on. A few minutes later I am coming, gasping and shuddering. (more…)
Let us speak: men should learn to listen quietly
Listening is an art. It’s not one I have mastered yet, although I try to be better every day. But it seems that, especially when it comes to women’s issues, men do not possess the ability to listen at all. They are quickly ready with explanations, solutions, suggestions or advice. None of which is welcome or appreciated. (more…)
Share our Shit Saturday: February 2019
It’s been a while – way too long! – since I have done a SOSS post. Life got in the way of blogging, and then I spent January on a different writing project. But I finally decided to get on the horse again. I don’t want to neglect my blog and an #SoSS post is the perfect way to get back into reading other blogs as well. (more…)
Masturbation Monday: On display
“This isn’t going to hurt a bit,” she whispers in my ear.
I know she is lying, but I don’t care. The thought of being hurt sends shivers down my spine. Shivers of excitement. (more…)
Overcoming shame
Sex is still very much a taboo subject in our society. In fact, particularly in the US, we seem to have gone backwards to ultra conservatism, shunning sexuality in all its forms. (more…)