2019 New Year’s Resolutions

I can’t believe a whole year has passed again. A year ago, I posted some very general New Year’s resolutions, as I failed to accomplish my detailed 2017 New Year’s resolutions. At the end of 2017 I felt like a failure for not having accomplished what I had resolved to do. On New Year’s Day 2018 I decided not to set myself up for disaster, so my resolutions were short and general. Continue reading “2019 New Year’s Resolutions”

Sex toy review – Doc Johnson Pussy Pump

Doc Johnson Pussy Pump in Box

I recently (well, a while ago actually, it has taken me a while to write this review) received the Doc Johnson Pussy Pump from Betty’s Toy Box to review. I had never used a pussy pump before, so I was excited to see what that was all about. Continue reading “Sex toy review – Doc Johnson Pussy Pump”

Why you should ask for an orgasm

young couple making out
A friend of mine has recently gotten out of her long term relationship and is wading back into the dating world. As she wants to explore her sexuality more (yay!) she has started having casual sex. We were talking about her experiences recently and she confessed that she is unable to orgasm through penetration alone. She asked me when she should disclose this to her sexual partners. Continue reading “Why you should ask for an orgasm”

Sex toy review: Cal Exotics Red Hot Flare

A while ago, Betty’s Toy Box was kind enough to send me the Cal Exotics Red Hot Flare clitoral stimulator. It has been a while since I have reviewed toys on my site, I had gone off it a bit, but my site has been a bit light on content, so I thought I’d review a toy or two.
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Share our Shit Saturday – 20 October

The last time I did a #SoSS post was before the summer, I can’t believe it! In my defence, I did share a lot of others’ content during the summer when I co-hosted the Summer 100 Blog Challenge, but it’s so nice to be back to reading different blogs and posting some highlights. Continue reading “Share our Shit Saturday – 20 October”

Don’t compare yourself

I’ve been on a bit of a self-imposed break due to personal reasons. While my life is still not nearly as stable as I would like it to be, I am slowly making my way back to writing, as it makes me happy. But being away for a few weeks (months?) has had an impact on my site traffic. And seeing the stats going down when I have worked to hard to get them up in the first place is hard. Continue reading “Don’t compare yourself”

Life’s not all that bad

women have power

The news is full of gloom and doom lately. Here in the UK we are struggling with Brexit; the sheer idiocy of it all and the total lack of leadership from the government. I am not even going to start with the US, we all know the dumpster fire that’s going on there. In all this, it’s very hard to see a silver lining, to feel even a shimmer of joy. I have been stuck in a funk of doom myself for the past few weeks, but today I realised that life’s not all that bad. Continue reading “Life’s not all that bad”

Why is libido so fickle sometimes?


I haven’t had sex in about two months. I know: shocking, right? I am a sex blogger who doesn’t have sex. There used to be a time when I would rather have died than admit I don’t really have sex. Especially since people are quick to point out that sex is super important to a marriage. Continue reading “Why is libido so fickle sometimes?”