I am actually old enough to remember a time before the internet. When I started university the internet was a very new thing. I had a computer at home, but no internet connection, so if I wanted to be online, I had to go to the university. Social media didn’t exist and we barely had mobile phones, let alone smart phones. (more…)
I feel inadequate. I feel like somehow I am failing as a sex blogger, an erotic writer, an open minded sex positive individual. (more…)
Who does not have fantasies? The title of this post is a bit of a giveaway, because most people will answer a resounding ‘no’. No, you should not feel guilty about your fantasies, not even sexual ones. But it’s not that simple, is it? (more…)
I am working on getting my older blog posts back on my site. Until I have been able to do that, please read my disaster story…
For a long time in my life I didn’t really think about my sexuality. I was attracted to men and women alike, but identified as straight. Being gay was a taboo when I grew up (strict upbringing and such), so I mostly repressed my attraction to women. I made out with a few women in college, but it never progressed beyond that.
Apparently May is Masturbation Month. I had heard that at the beginning of the month, but had not really paid much attention to it. However, a recent trip abroad for work made me think about masturbating and its function and in light of May being Masturbation Month, this might be a good time to share some thoughts. (more…)
I am aware that I have neglected the blog a bit. I didn’t even have time to write and post a Flash Fiction Friday post, I’m sorry. I am working through edits on my manuscript which I will send out Monday in a week after which things won’t be as hectic. I’ll be back to posting regularly soon.
Stay sexy, everyone!
Another month come and gone. Time flies far too hard for my liking. This month has been extremely productive though, so I feel good about what I have accomplished so far. (more…)
We often hear about how difficult it is for women to reach an orgasm. Men seem to be able to come at the flick of a switch, but women need time and lots of stimulation. Such generalisations – as with all generalisations – are dangerous. We are all individuals and we all have different experiences.
I grew up in a very conservative household. My parents were devout Christians and raised me and my siblings accordingly. This meant that our sex education purely covered the absolute basics and nothing else. And since I also attended a conservative Christian school, I did not receive any sex ed at school which could enlighten me any more. (more…)