Why is bisexuality so confusing to people?

For a long time in my life I didn’t really think about my sexuality. I was attracted to men and women alike, but identified as straight. Being gay was a taboo when I grew up (strict upbringing and such), so I mostly repressed my attraction to women. I made out with a few women in college, but it never progressed beyond that.

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How masturbating improved my sex life

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Apparently May is Masturbation Month. I had heard that at the beginning of the month, but had not really paid much attention to it. However, a recent trip abroad for work made me think about masturbating and its function and in light of May being Masturbation Month, this might be a good time to share some thoughts. Continue reading “How masturbating improved my sex life”

Busy, busy, busy

I am aware that I have neglected the blog a bit. I didn’t even have time to write and post a Flash Fiction Friday post, I’m sorry. I am working through edits on my manuscript which I will send out Monday in a week after which things won’t be as hectic. I’ll be back to posting regularly soon.

Stay sexy, everyone!

Multi orgasmic: blessing or curse?

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We often hear about how difficult it is for women to reach an orgasm. Men seem to be able to come at the flick of a switch, but women need time and lots of stimulation. Such generalisations – as with all generalisations – are dangerous. We are all individuals and we all have different experiences.

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I am an erotic Christian

I grew up in a very conservative household. My parents were devout Christians and raised me and my siblings accordingly. This meant that our sex education purely covered the absolute basics and nothing else. And since I also attended a conservative Christian school, I did not receive any sex ed at school which could enlighten me any more. Continue reading “I am an erotic Christian”