We often hear about how difficult it is for women to reach an orgasm. Men seem to be able to come at the flick of a switch, but women need time and lots of stimulation. Such generalisations – as with all generalisations – are dangerous. We are all individuals and we all have different experiences.
Continue reading “Multi orgasmic: blessing or curse?”
I grew up in a very conservative household. My parents were devout Christians and raised me and my siblings accordingly. This meant that our sex education purely covered the absolute basics and nothing else. And since I also attended a conservative Christian school, I did not receive any sex ed at school which could enlighten me any more. Continue reading “I am an erotic Christian”
How has March come to an end already? I hadn’t realised that it was the end of the month yesterday, so I hadn’t prepared a monthly round up post. So here it is. Continue reading “March Round Up”
I have recently read various scathing condemnations of writers who use pen names. Some commenters called authors who use pen names cowardly, others said they couldn’t trust someone who did not use their own name for a pen name. Continue reading “Pen Names”
If you follow me on Twitter, you will be aware that I am moving house. (I promise I will stop moaning about it soon.) As part of the house move, I flipped through some old pictures from my student years and damn! I was so young and skinny. My immediate reaction was, ‘I wish I still had that body’. Because, you know, skinny is beautiful. Skinny is good. And beauty is most important. Continue reading “I Love My Body”
Another month gone by. The short, dark days are slowly getting longer and lighter and spring is just aroud the corner. Time for another round up. Continue reading “February Round Up”
The blog has a new look! I hope you all like it. I needed a cleaner look and am quite happy with this one. For now at least.
I am generally a confident woman. I don’t think am a bad mother, I am quite a good wife and I am good at my job. But when it comes to writing, I turn into this quivering mess of self doubt. Despite assurances from my friends and family that my writing is quite good, it doesn’t take much for me to feel that I am absolutely rubbish at writing. Continue reading ““I am absolutely rubbish””
I am a very busy person. I am also a highly organised person, so normally I am quite capable of juggling all my different responsibilities. But recently we have found out that we have to move house, so this has given me another ball to juggle. I find it becoming harder to keep all balls in the air. Continue reading “Juggling”
I am interested in your opinion. What do you prefer? To watch porn or to read it? I guess there are benefits and drawbacks to both. Personally I prefer reading porn. You can do it discretely anywhere you want to, especially if you have a Kindle or other e-reader. And for me I like the fact that I get to use my imagination. Continue reading “Porn – read it or watch it?”