A week of daily orgasms: a mixture of toys and fingering

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I decided to join in Tanitha Rayne’s #30DayOrgasmFun challenge where you attempt to have 30 orgasms in 30 days in the month of April. It’s just a bit of fun, no pressure, but I wanted to take it seriously. It’s time for a check in to report how I am doing so far.

I don’t generally masturbate a lot. Hubby and I have sex quite regularly and on the days we don’t I don’t always find it necessary to masturbate. But with this challenge I wanted to make sure that some of the orgasms would be by my own hand, especially considering the original goal of this challenge was to reconnect with your body and practice some self care.

Hubby wasn’t up for joining me in the challenge, but on three out of the seven days so far he has helped me get an orgasm. Which was fine, more than fine actually, as I enjoy my sexy times with him. And this left four days for me to obtain my own orgasms. Now, when I do masturbate these days I use toys. I find that toys will get me off quicker and produce more intense orgasms and often I am just lazy and want to lie back and have the toys do all the work.

But for this week I didn’t want to rely on toys all the time. Not only because I sometimes just wanted a quick wank and using my hands to perform the task was just easier. No need to make sure they are charged, no elaborate cleaning process afterwards (washing your hands is a heck of a lot easier than washing toys), no need for lubricant. And I have to admit that I really enjoyed fingering myself again. I had forgotten how nice it feels to touch my own pussy, feel myself get wet, stroke my G spot. My orgasms weren’t as intense as with a toy, but they were equally satisfying and enjoyable.

I love this challenge so far. I love how relaxed I have become about giving myself orgasms, I am no longer chasing quick release; rather, I spend more time just reveling in touching myself, noting how good something feels, exploring my own body with my own hands. And yes, relearning how awesome fingering myself is. I am not saying that sex toys are bad. They will always be part of my arsenal and I will always be grateful that I have discovered sex toys. But I will use my own hands and fingers more throughout this challenge.

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