My first experience with bondage

This post is the first of the Summer 100 sex blogging challenge.

See Victoria’s kick-off post about the challenge on her blog Pretty Pink Lotus Bud and join us if you wish!

Bondage

I have been interested in bondage for quite a while. I am not a very kinky person, or at least I never think of myself of kinky. Going out for lunch with a remote-controlled vibrating egg inside me was the kinkiest thing I had ever done. But I really liked the thought of being tied up and being unable to do anything as hubby pleasured me. I carefully put the suggestion to him that we experiment with it sometime and luckily he was up for it.

Starting out

As I didn’t know whether we would like it or not, I didn’t immediately want to buy the most expensive handcuffs/chains/ropes out there. I also didn’t want to start with something too intimidating, so I opted for Lovehoney BASICS Wrist Cuffs and Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints to start with.

Lovehoney BASICS Wrist Cuffs

The Lovehoney BASICS Wrist Cuffs lived up to their name – basic. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but if you expect some sexy packaging you will be disappointed. Out of the package, the cuffs are simple Velcro cuffs which can be clipped together with a lobster clip. The space between the cuffs when clipped together was enough for me to tie it to the slats of the bed, restricting my movement even more. Because the cuffs are Velcro, they are easily adjustable to a comfortable size (or uncomfortable if you’d prefer). Even with me straining against them the cuffs didn’t really rub and didn’t leave a mark.

Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints

The Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints can be used as either wrist or ankle restraints. I used them as ankle restraints. The ties slip through a loop on the end, creating a bigger loop through which you can slip your ankle or wrist. The restraints are quite long, so you have a nice amount of play with them. We tried a variety of ways to tie them, including me being spread-eagled on the bed with the restraints tied to the bedposts and with my legs drawn up to my knees and the restraints tied to the headboard. The Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints are made from quite stiff material, so are not as comfortable to use as the Lovehoney BASICS Wrist Cuffs, but they didn’t leave any marks.

Conclusion

So…did I like the bondage experience? Up to a point. I really liked that hubby had full control over my pleasure during foreplay, but when it came to intercourse, I wanted to be able to use my hands. I have a hard time climaxing during penetration unless I also stimulate my clit, so I wanted to have my hands free to play with my clit. Hubby really liked being in control though, which was great as I find a man in control incredibly sexy.

I will definitely play around with bondage again. I think hubby and I will need to figure out what works and what doesn’t, as things got a bit awkward at times which can be a mood killer. I can’t envisage myself wanting to be tied up during intercourse though, it’s much more fun if I can use my hands (though I think it would be fun for my legs to be tied up). It was definitely an experience I wouldn’t mind repeating.

You can get the Lovehoney BASICS Wrist Cuffs here from Lovehoney for £6.99.

You can get the Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints here from Lovehoney for £6.99.

Check out some of the other participants in the Summer 100 challenge:

Juliet has a hilarious blog post about some of the messages she receives on dating sites. You’ve got to wonder what goes through the minds of some of those men…

Bella Rosa from Sharp Sweet Bella has a wonderful post up about what Wonder Woman means to her.

Scarlet Rose from Scarlet Rose Vixen reviewed the We Vibe Tango which sounds like a bullet I need to invest in: I love lots of power!

 

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2 thoughts on “My first experience with bondage”

  1. I’ve never tried bondage before. Someone once gifted me some bondage tape that kind that doesn’t stick to you but sticks to itself. I never used it. I’m not sure how I might like it. I’ll put it on my list of things to try.

    1. You have to be with someone you trust completely and you have to be fine with giving up control. I am a control freak everywhere else in life, so in the bedroom I like to give myself over completely.

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