Last year, Tabitha Rayne started the #30DayOrgasmFun as a way of boosting her mental health. You can read all about it in the blog post I linked to. I have decided to join in on the fun this year.
Orgasms are never really a problem with me. I can usually achieve an orgasm with partnered sex (as long as I have a vibe for clitoral stimulation) and also during masturbation I am generally successful. It’s just that I have lately not taken as much time for masturbation as I have in the past.
I am not always in the mood for sex or masturbation. But I found that whenever I travel for work, no matter what mood I am in, I always make time for masturbation. So it’s nice to have a bit of an incentive to do the same when I am at home. Why not make some time every day to either bring myself to an orgasm or have sex (and orgasms) with hubby?
Tabitha started #30DayOrgasmFun as a way to improve her mental health through masturbation. The idea is that you take some time for self care, explore your body and make yourself feel good. As the hashtag says, it’s just for fun. There are no rules, there is no right or wrong way to do this and no one is going to keep score. This is for yourself to enjoy.
So this is how I am going to do my #30DayOrgasmFun. Hubby has already said that he is not going to be able to manage one orgasm a day for 30 days. But I don’t want to leave him out of the fun altogether. While this challenge was originally created as a way of masturbating more, I am going to involve hubby whenever he wants. I would like to have more sex and I think that if I kick things off with masturbating (and him watching/assisting) he may join in more often than he would have planned.
But of course my orgasms won’t all be partnered. I do want to use this challenge to masturbate more and take more time for self care. I generally masturbate most often when I am away on business trips in hotels, but there is no reason why I couldn’t masturbate at home, whether or not hubby is at home as well. Masturbation is not only for those desperate days when I am horny and hubby isn’t around to satisfy my needs. Masturbation is also good for self exploration, and, as Tabitha points out in her blog post, for self care and to boost my mental health.
I will blog about this as well; maybe not every day, but I will keep track of what an orgasm every day does for my mental health and I will report back. Let the fun begin!