Privacy is of the utmost importance to me. It’s not a secret that I write my blog under a pseudonym. I don’t show my face on my blog and my avatar is carefully cropped so that my son’s signature isn’t showing. I value my privacy, not only in my life as a sex blogger […]
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I started this blog just over three years ago. After my hysterectomy, I had all this renewed energy and I started feeling sexy again, so I wanted an outlet for my thoughts around that. Hence this blog. I have to admit that I didn’t think I would last this long. Many times over the years
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I never used to understand people who viewed pain as pleasure. I suffered from endometriosis for about thirty years and the last thing I wanted to feel during sex was pain. I had had enough of that during my years of chronic pain. It seemed strange to willfully inflict pain on oneself (or have a
I want to talk to you about time management. I love this topic, as I am good at managing my time. I’m a very busy person, but I generally manage to fit everything I need to do into a day and still have time for myself (most days). But when I sat down to
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Life is a balancing act. Whether you are single or in a relationship, we all need to balance our own personal needs with the needs of others. Maybe your partner, your parents, your children, or even your work. No one is an island, and so, we all need to perform this delicate balancing act each
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“You have child-bearing hips,” my mother used to tell me whenever I complained about having a big ass. “It’ll be easy for you to have children.”
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The prompt for this week’s Food4Thought is intimacy. I don’t think I have written a lot about intimacy on my blog, so this is a timely prompt for me. You would have expected that, as a sex blogger, I would have written a lot about intimacy, so it’s a surprise to me too that none
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How do you motivate yourself to do the thing you want or need to do? Whether it’s the day job, blogging or writing stories/novels, how do I keep motivated when things get tough?
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For the longest time, it has been my dream to be a full time writer. To, one day, ditch the day job and retreat to a little shack in the woods and write. Become a full time novelist. Publish book after book and focus only on the writing. As I’m getting older, though, I realise
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Last year was the first time I maintained a bullet journal for the whole year. I had started one in 2018, but after a few months, I abandoned it. It just wasn’t working for me. Despite bullet journalling all year in 2019, I still wasn’t really that happy with the way my bullet journal worked.
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