Sex toy review: Tantus Goliath

tantus goliath in package

Tantus kindly sent me the Goliath Midnight Purple for my review. The Tantus Goliath has two aspects which made me want to try it: it’s larger than the dildos I usually test and it has a suction cup. Especially the latter peaked my interest, as I love sex doggy style and with the suction cup I can have a hands free ride. Continue reading “Sex toy review: Tantus Goliath”

My pussy is perfect and so is yours

My pussy is perfect just the way it is, thank you. It is (mostly) self lubricating. It cleans itself. It is capable of giving me – and my hubby – a lot of pleasure. It has helped me give birth to two children. Oh wait, no, it didn’t, they didn’t fit through my pelvis, but that was hardly my pussy’s fault. Continue reading “My pussy is perfect and so is yours”

“Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.”

The title of this post is a quote by Erica Jong from Fear of Flying and it is so, so true. Women feel guilt all the time. Especially women who are mothers. This post is about mom guilt. Continue reading ““Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.””

Blogger spotlight: Taryn from Ace in the Hole

Summer 100 Sex blogger challenge

Please welcome Taryn from Ace in the Hole. Taryn is another participant in the Summer 100 Sex Blogger Challenge. She reviews sex toys and talks openly about being asexual. I am very happy she agreed to be interviewed.

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The internet is a wonderful, addictive, scary place

I am actually old enough to remember a time before the internet. When I started university the internet was a very new thing. I had a computer at home, but no internet connection, so if I wanted to be online, I had to go to the university. Social media didn’t exist and we barely had mobile phones, let alone smart phones. Continue reading “The internet is a wonderful, addictive, scary place”

My journey as a sex toy tester


I am relatively new to the whole sex blogging thing in general and sex toy reviews in particular. I didn’t start this blog with the intention of reviewing sex toys, I reviewed the sex toys I had as part of creating diverse content on my site. However, once I started, I really liked it and wanted to do more. Continue reading “My journey as a sex toy tester”

Flash Fiction Friday – Rain


The rain took me by surprise; soaking me, drenching me. My carefully applied make up streaked my face. My hair, which I had spent an hour blow drying, lay flat on my head, dripping tendrils sticking to my neck. My silk blouse clung to my skin, making it obvious that I was not wearing a bra. What had seemed like a playful idea – the suggestion of a nipple under the fabric – had turned into a disaster. How could I enter the restaurant like this? Continue reading “Flash Fiction Friday – Rain”