Life is busy. I am sure we can all agree on that. There are many things that demand our attention, time and energy. Often there is hardly enough time in the day to have sex and when we do have sex, our minds are still racing. That’s where mindfulness can come in handy.
Mindfulness greatly enhances the sexual experience Read More »
Generally speaking my husband and I are fairly vanilla when it comes to sex. Sure, we have experimented a bit with bondage, but we often can’t bother to get out the restraints, so when we “do the deed” we often default to the missionary position.
There is no such thing as foreplay Read More »
I like to think of myself as a confident woman. I don’t really give many fucks about what people think of me. I dye my hair purple and wear Doc Martens boots to work, a very conservative office work environment. But when it comes to my writing and blogging, self doubt overwhelms me.
Self doubt and anxiety: a match made in hell Read More »
I consider myself quite vanilla. I have only had sex with 2 men in my life (consensual, that is), I have been with my husband for 21 years (married for almost 17) and we are both monogamous. I like it that way. I am not telling you all these things because I want a
Fantasies of being gang-banged Read More »
I understand why some women need bras. If you are a larger breasted lady, then you may need the support of a bra to help your back and to keep the beauties in place. Even my smaller breasts need some support every now and then, particular those rare instances where I actually work out.
My motto has always been ‘if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it’. Especially when it comes to sex and masturbation. If it gets me off, then I will keep repeating the same formula. I never really saw a reason to change things. I had my favourite positions during sex and my favourite ways of
Variety in sex helped me after my hysterectomy Read More »
Eroticon is less than a month away (and thanks to February being a very short month that means less than 4 weeks away!) and I am really looking forward to it. I am meeting my online friend Victoria on Friday before we head to the Meet and Greet and then the conference on Saturday. I
Eroticon meet and greet Read More »
I took a week off blogging, so there was no #SoSS post from me last week. I am feeling a bit more refreshed this week, so I am throwing up some links I liked reading this week. Let’s share the shit out of our shit and fight the continuous censoring of sex writing!
Share our Shit Saturday – 17 February Read More »
Lent started this Wednesday, conveniently on Valentine’s Day. I don’t traditionally observe Lent, I don’t fast and I don’t really give up any of my vices. But this year I thought I would try giving up something for Lent. Something that would – hopefully – make a difference to my life.
Rest, reset, recharge – Observing Lent this year Read More »
It’s Sunday evening and it’s a rare evening that my husband is out. He will be home late, so I have plenty of time to try out the backlog of toys that I need to review. I work full time and have two children, so getting time to test out sex toys is sometimes
A day (evening) in the life of a sex toy reviewer Read More »